Femdom Women Humiliating Men

Femdom Women love humiliating men both in private and in public. They love to degrade them and laugh at them. These Femdom women like to find more and more ways to humiliate men. If you are into being humiliated you will love serving and obeying a bossy woman. If you are dating or you are married to a Femdom woman you should ask her about humiliation.

Humiliation can take on many forms. Verbal humiliation is often popular with bossy women. Femdom women especially love to humiliate the man in front of other people. Another form of humiliation may be for a Femdom wife to dress her husband up in a maids outfit while he cleans the house.

Humiliation is defined as the abasement of pride, or the state of being reduced to lowliness and made to feel humble and without ego. Humiliation play and humiliation as a disciplinary tool are common in BDSM relationships. There is a delicate balance between humiliation and degradation, but when achieved it can offer both the Dominant and the submissive emotional and physical arousal. It can also further enforce the roles of both sides of the relationship, giving the Dominant more control and power and leaving the submissive reminded of his place as the lesser. But what is it about humiliation that creates arousal and reinforces gender roles?

When a Dominant and a submissive are engaged in a healthy, trusting relationship, humiliation can be a powerful force due to the emotional reactions it creates. Shame is often associated with both sex and humiliation, and this connection is exploited here. Humiliation can be either verbal or physical, public or private based on each particular couple. When the man is submissive and the woman Dominant, the reversal of gender roles in the power exchange is enhanced even further. It can be as simple as using erotic embarrassment with words that have negative connotations but still imply that the person is a highly sexual being, or as complex as forcing the slave to be paraded around on a leash or exposed naked at a gathering. The main factor here is that the submissive is being forced to follow the commands of the Dominant, and they are powerless to control the situation. This may seem similar to a traditional Sub/Dom situation, but the humiliation is more emotional and the submissive is powerless to the emotions they may experience.

In many cases the powerful emotional nature of the humiliation creates even more pleasure and arousal in submissives, and they will find themselves begging to do whatever the Mistress wants. It heightens the electricity of the moment, and makes them even more connected to their nature as the submissive party. Humiliation used as punishment is often highly effective as not only are behaviors of submission reinforced, emotions of submission are reinforced as well. Putting the slave into the powerless place of having their emotions controlled and being made to feel humble, feel lesser through humiliation is a powerful form of control. For the Dominant, the ability to make the submissive feel lowly and without ego is intoxicating and feeds right into their natural need to be in charge.

Caution should be exercised on the use of humiliation, especially as punishment in any BDSM relationship. It must come from a loving, trusting, cherished place, and the submissive must not be degraded or pushed to the point where they completely lose self-esteem. This can be damaging and demoralizing, and the submissive may find they are powerless to control their emotions, often falling into a catatonic phase where they feel nothing. But when used responsibly, humiliation can provide the electric current that excites the relationship and can keep roles of both parties in check.

Humiliation as punishment and play can be hard to understand for those that do not desire the feelings of shame and humbleness that are associated with it. For many in the BDSM lifestyle though this power exchange can reinforce roles in the relationship and create even more of a bond of trust among partners.

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